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Post by Citizen Cane on May 25, 2017 12:14:49 GMT -6
Just received the money everyone sent in the mail, Thank you guys from the bottom of my heart. I'll put this money towards a remembrance gift for my mom in October (her birthday), maybe a commissioned framed artwork or something of her and my dad. sounds like a good idea. Hope you and the family are doing ok
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Post by MistleTacoe on May 25, 2017 15:57:08 GMT -6
Truly sorry for your loss Ian. No one should have to go through stuff like this.
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Post by 20s Navidad on May 25, 2017 16:01:39 GMT -6
Hope the league can provide some sort of outlet/activity to take your mind off everything for a bit
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Post by IanBoyd on May 25, 2017 16:42:04 GMT -6
The process has been...odd for me.
I hardly shed any years during the funeral, but I've pretty much lost the "all in or nothing" interest in just about everything, and whenever I see a commercial or video that reminded me of a conversation my dad had with me before he went into surgery, I nope out of it immediately.
Self diagnosis would say I'm still in the denial part of the "stages of grief" but idk...
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Post by eric on May 25, 2017 19:20:51 GMT -6
The process has been...odd for me. I hardly shed any years during the funeral, but I've pretty much lost the "all in or nothing" interest in just about everything, and whenever I see a commercial or video that reminded me of a conversation my dad had with me before he went into surgery, I nope out of it immediately. Self diagnosis would say I'm still in the denial part of the "stages of grief" but idk... keep talking. to us, the family, strangers, a therapist, whomever. nothing's gonna make you feel better, but it'll make you feel the least worse.
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Post by Souper Troopers on May 26, 2017 13:49:24 GMT -6
We're here if you need anything. Continued thoughts for you and your mom during this time.
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Post by Bankz on May 26, 2017 14:02:16 GMT -6
I'm so sorry to hear about this Ian. I wish I had known earlier. T's and P's to you and your family. The guys have given you great advice just know we all are thinking and praying for you and the family.
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Post by MJ on May 26, 2017 19:48:46 GMT -6
Thinking about you Ian. I'm currently unemployed so I wasn't able to pitch in but in a few weeks I can and want to
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Post by IanBoyd on Jun 16, 2017 15:26:51 GMT -6
So tomorrow would have been my dad's 58th birthday...and Sunday is father's day. I think I'm going to buy some alcohol tonight...
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Post by FectaDEEZ on Jun 16, 2017 15:30:23 GMT -6
So tomorrow would have been my dad's 58th birthday...and Sunday is father's day. I think I'm going to buy some alcohol tonight... Thats rough man. Be strong and I'm sure you will get through it ok.
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Post by Heebs on Jun 16, 2017 20:41:14 GMT -6
So tomorrow would have been my dad's 58th birthday...and Sunday is father's day. I think I'm going to buy some alcohol tonight... Raise a glass to Papa Boyd. Spend some time with your mom. Tell a story of two. Cry. Hug. Remember.
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